Switch on the attraction!

There are certain "switches" you can flip on in a woman to make her feel attraction for you. So what are they?

1. Pre-selection. Show that you've dated beautiful women of high value before, and because of this you are unaffected by HER beauty.

2. Leader. Show you have the character needed to inspire others to follow you. It also implies some social status as people do not follow just anyone.

3. Protector of loved ones. This one is important to show her. it shows that if she were to get into a relationship with you, she would be safe.

4. Willing to emote. The ability to show her the range of your emotions is very powerful. You have to demonstrate to her very clearly that you are someone who follows they’re emotions. It just so happens that you’re emotions lead you toward being pre-selected by women, a leader of men and a protector of loved ones.

5. The willingness to walk away. In every set there is a point where you will have to show her without a doubt that you want her, but are willing to walk if she doesn’t adhere to the standards you have set for her.

6. The ability to affect her emotionally. When two people interact, and one of them has an emotional reaction while the other doesn’t, the unaffected person has more social power.

7. Identity. Who you are and what you do, can and should help your game.

8. Lifestyle. The type of life that you live, if shes with you will she be sitting at home all the time watching you eat fried chicken? Or will she enter a world where she is whisked away to a cool party with awesome people?

So how do you convey these things? Through DHV's (demonstrations of higher value). Tell stories that convey these traits and behaviors.

Another tool for attraction is throw interesting comments into the conversation (if you can relate them back to the target even better!)

You: "so tell me one interesting fact about yourself!" her: "I can't jump." You: "what? OMG your so like an elephant, elephants can't jump either! I'm so calling you "ellie" from now on" *big smile*. She'll eat this up, its always good to give fun nicknames to women with goofy backgrounds... you two will have fun 6 months later thinking about how she got her nickname!

If she's wearing an unusual amount of perfume ask her "Are you depressed about something?" her: *whatever she says*. "It's just that your perfume, Scientists at the University of Tel-Aviv, have found that girls lose sense of smell when they're depressed. This leads to them putting on more perfume!!" It's interesting, its relevant, and you can even challenge her to a smell contest where her friends judge wether you or her smell better (MAKE SURE YOU SMELL GOOD!). Keep it fun!

Yet even another tool for building attraction is the push-pull method. The idea behind this is you pull her in, then push her away, generating interest.

"your so cute....to bad ur not my type"

"You're awesome!.... You would be perfect for my friend!"

*ask her what kind of music she likes* "Eww you like listening to ---- it's ok, we don't have to tell anyone!"

"You know what, I have been here for a good 13 seconds now tho and I hav'nt seen you even try to slip anything into my drink...I think I may start to trust you...we'll see. I'm judging your performance based on Style, Smiles, and how often you giggle at my crappy jokes" *smirk/smile*

be enthusiastic when you greet her, give her a hug and say "I'm so glad you're here!!.. I was worried I'd be the worst dressed!" *big smile*

One more tool for attraction (and one of the best) is C/F. An example of this would be when a girl says she loves you for w.e reason get her with "Dont love me, just like me a hell of a lot!" =)

Untill next time... CHEERS! Twain*

Theres a method to the madness... follow it!

Theres a method to the madness... and it goes like this. Open (approaching women), transition, attract, qualify, comfort/rapport building, seduction... and relationship (this part optional, depending on wether you take it to that or not).

I'll explain each phase and a number techniques for each one. This post will indentify the most important of these and I'll give you an opener to get some practice with.

A problem that alot of guys have when it comes to women is that they start in the wrong phase. They start in COMFORT, and because of that, girls see them as FRIENDS. You see, when theres comfort without that spark of attraction, girls just arn't... well, attracted to you. It's THAT simple. Really. So make sure to start in the right place! ATTRACTION!

Attraction, is the most important part of your interactions with women. You want to trigger attraction from the very START of an interaction with a woman. And you want to maintain it throughout the relationship. Meaning even as you build comfort keep the attraction ramped up.

To do this you need to be fun, interesting, spontaneous and confident! And you need to portray this from the start, when you open. Luckily I've compiled a list of openers to help you do this! I want you to go and try these, thats the only way your gonna get better. Heres your first one!

"hey whats up? Can you tell me where the cool girls are?" *big smile*

Keep it fun and good luck guys!

IOI's and IOD's

OK! I hear it so much, "Twain, how do I KNOW if a woman is ATTRACTED to me?". Well, theres some signs to look for man, and once you know where they are you can spot 'em a mile away! So sit back because here comes your first lesson in reading a womans actions!


IOI's

She walks very close to you.
She "accidentaly" bumps into you from time to time while your walking.
She touches your arm, or shoulder, or whatever, but she touches you. this a GOOD sign.
When sitting beside you she crosses her legs so that the top leg faces towards you.
When sitting across from you she leans foreward.
She nudges you with her foot from under the table.
She laughs and smiles alot while around you.
She compliments you.
She seems genuinly interested you, for example asking lots of questions.


IOD's

She walks far away from you.
Theres no "accidental bumping happening when your walking.
Shes hestitant to touch or even hug you.
When sitting beside you she crosses her legs so that the top leg faces away from you.
When sitting across from you she leans back.
She doesn't smile or laugh alot while your around.
She insults you.
She seems bored by you. looks around alot, searching for something else to do.



Remember these are INDICATORS, not iron clad proof. If you get 1 or 2 IOI's, your doin' good. BUT after you get 3 or more, your golden buddy!