Getting your life together!

Ok, so you want to be good with women! Don't we all? First things first. GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER! No woman wants to be with a guy who hasn't got it together. Don't know where to start? That's ok, because I've put together a little checklist for you, and over the next month, your going to complete it =). Sounds fun doesn't it?

1. Start lifting weights. If your in shape your going to feel and act more confident, which equals more attractive in a womans eyes. Got a home gym? Forget that! Join a real gym! We'll have no sitting on the couch getting distracted by oprah between sets! Get out of the house and get around people, talk to them, about lifting, cars, current events, WOMEN, anything, but for petes sake get out there and socialize with people. These people are your aquintances, which are potential friends. Either way they add value to you, assuming they're cool people who have it together that is!

2. What do you like to do for fun? Bike? Run? Fish? Blog? Play sports? Whatever it is, DO IT! And again, talk to the people around you. You're obviously going to have things in common with them, you're all doing the same things!

3. So once your starting to get fit and more used to talking to people, GO SHOPPING! Get some stylin' threads. (if you don't know what stylin' threads are... read my post on style for some info).

4. By now, you should be looking pretty good, feelin' even better and enjoying your hobbies. So what's next? GET SOME FRIENDS! Already got some? SWEET! Now get some new ones! I'm not saying lose your old ones, but branch out for a day. Remember the aquintances? Call 'em up sometime and make plans for the next week. If you've got some female aquintances, become better friends with them! Female friends are neccessary. So call one up, and make plans for lunch, then head out to a museum for the afternoon (if she likes art. If shes into sports, go to a game... ya know, whatevers cool.) but make sure your NOT comming across as "this is a date". STRICTLY FRIENDS... for now. In fact APPROACH WOMEN while your hanging out with her.

5. The whole time, you should be working on your personality... I'm not talking overhaul it, I mean you're you, so BE YOU. But throw in some charm, some playfullness, some wit... and slowly, but surely, you'll notice you becoming more popular around town.

So thats the basics. Get in shape, get some hobbies and some aquintances, go shopping and update your wardrobe, and increase your social circle!


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